Saturday, June 30, 2012


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Brett and I are both very lucky to be able to work with the youth. 
Even though our callings keep us REALLY busy,
nothing is more rewarding than knowing you played a role in the future generation
 (Brett is currently serving as a deacon advisor and I am serving as the YW president). 

We were both really excited for youth conference this year. 
The goal was to keep it really short, sweet, and simple
 (allowing more of the youth to get involved and participate).
It was decided by the youth that they wanted to focus the conference on the Manti Miracle Pagaent.
On Wednesday morning, we drove two large charter buses of 100 youth
up to Manti for our youth conference 2012.



We knew it would be a great opportunity for the youth to get involved and 
strengthen their testimonies of the temple, Book of Mormon, and service. 

We started the conference with a great lunch,
then a service project cleaning up the temple grounds (pulling weeds, sweeping dirt, etc),
followed by fun outdoor games and activities (relay races, competitions, etc),
wrapped up with a great evening of watching the Miracle Pagaent.



All in all the conference turned out to be a real success. 
The youth really seemed to enjoy the time spent on the temple grounds 
whether it be working on the grounds or watching the pageant
I just can't express enough how much i love the youth and how inspired I 
feel by their examples and testimonies. 
They truly shine as they aspire to be the best they can be.
Again, I am so grateful for their examples and am so grateful for 
moments like this that i get to surround myself with their influences. 



Saturday, June 23, 2012

One choice can transform you---or destroy you.


After reading the Hunger Games, I was having a huge hangover for another 
fast paced, young adult, dystpoian type novel. 
Luckily I have a 17 year old sister. 
She quickly referred me to the book Divergent by Veronica Roth.
 If you love Hunger Games and haven't read Divergent already I must ask...what is wrong with you!?

Anyways, Insurgent is the second book of the series, and I must say that I loved it.
(even a smidge more than I enjoyed the first book, if that is even possible).
We are talking action, cliffhangers, tension,  power struggles, drama, love triangles---
 I mean seriously, what else could you ask for in a good young adult novel?

I loved how the book picked up right where the second book left off. 
I love the growth the characters make--- both positive and negative. 
When it comes down to it... after an action packed 500+ pages...
I'm dying for book 3. 

Anyways, if you were like me after reading the Hunger Games and feeling a huge void,
Go read the Divergent series. 
Veronica Roth has already been acclaimed by NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLING AUTHOR. 
The books are fantastic and you will love them!









 Those who know me, know that I seriously love getting caught up in a good book. 
Once I get in the zone I will just read, and read, and read...
This is something that I have done since I was really young, and love it!
(sometimes Brett is not a fan, because I will stay up with my bedside
 lamp on reading until the wee hours of the night.)
But what can I say? I can't help it!!!

Although I do not claim to be any type of great critic, I definitely have my opinions.
I am excited for this summer, because it is going to be my "summer of reading".
I wanted to log my "good reads". Also, if anyone has any good suggestions, let me know!

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Tips on some great blogs, an award and seven things you didn't know about me, or maybe you did!

One of my favorite bloggers in the whole blogging world is JarieLyn from Write Place! Write Chick! From the very first day I started reading her I was hooked. Her photographs are amazing and she lives in the City that Never Sleeps...Las Vegas! She shares lots of information about Vegas and the surrounding area. She's fun,funny and goofy at times. Other times she's sad and pensive and can make you cry, but regardless, she is always JarieLyn! One day I hope to get together with her since she's from my neck of the woods and I visit Vegas at least once a year, so I'm sure it's just a matter of time until we sync up our calendars and make time to meet.

JarieLyn recently started another blog. How she does it I don't know as I can barely keep up with one. The new blog is called dancewithwords, very fitting for JarieLyn as she loves to dance and she does have a way with words! I'm going to explain the idea of the new blog using the  explanation off of the blog itself:

"This blog is a collaboration between two women who live in two separate countries. One lives in Las Vegas, Nevada, the other one lives part time in two different cities in Brasil. The reason we created this blog is to improve our writing skills while developing discipline in this medium. Our concept in writing entries for this blog is to each contribute a paragraph or two on one topic. Two perspectives, one post. It is our thought that writing this way will challenge us to write out of our comfort zone and to think more creatively. Each post has both of our writing styles within the entry."

Isn't that a great concept? I hope all my readers...all three of you, run right over there and check out one or the other or both of these great blogs.

The reason I'm mentioning these blogs and JarieLyn is that she has honored me with a blogging award on her dancewithwords blog! She's given me the award but even better she's given me the gift of her beautiful words by writing this about my humble blog: "Alicia over at Titere Con Bonete is my favorite blogger. She is so talented in her personal storytelling. Her blog is fun and never boring. I just love Alicia because she is so down to earth."

Isn't that so sweet? High praise from someone I respect and have such affection for. Thank you again JarieLyn for my SISTERHOOD OF THE WORLD BLOGGERS AWARD!



Now I'm supposed to tell you 7 things about myself and since I love talking about myself this should be easy...let's see if that's true.

1. I was very shy in high school so I forced myself to try out for the cheer leading squad in order to not let my shyness defeat me. I made the squad and had a blast and have always been proud of myself for not giving in to my fears!

2. Like JarieLyn I love, love, love to dance! My favorite dance music is Mexican music, especially Cumbias, Rancheras and Cha-cha's! Of course, I usually need to get my rhythm going so I always start with a shot (or two) of Tequila and then sip the rest of the night on a Long Island Ice Tea!

3. I'm a recipe cook...meaning I can't just throw things together and come up with a meal. I have to have a plan and a recipe and all the ingredients that go with it or I can't cook.

4. When I first got my computer back in 1994, I got hooked on chat rooms. After hanging out in a chat room for about a year with the same group of people, we all decided to meet one weekend in Chicago. I flew from LAX to Chicago all by myself to meet a group of 20 or so complete strangers. I had the best time and was so proud of myself for being so brave!

5. I really don't think I have much of an imagination. I think of myself as an "in the box" individual. I don't stay in the box because of fear, I just stay in the box because I don't have the imagination to get out of there. But I do so admire people that are creative and think outside the box.

6. I'm not a dog person. I know you wouldn't think that because I love my daughter's dog Chorizo to little itty-bitty pieces...but that's cause Chorizo isn't really a dog. And how can you not love this little face?



7. I enjoy sweet and salty foods together. The other day I added strawberries to my salad that had bacon bits and ranch dressing and mixed them in and they were delicious! I love Kettle Korn for the same reason, cause it's sweet and salty...plus crunchy!

So there you go....7 things about lil ol me! I'm supposed to pass the award on to two other bloggers that I feel are worthy of being in the Sisterhood of the World Bloggers.

The first blog I would love to offer the award to belongs to Paula over at Sweet Pea. Paula is one of those "out of the box" people I admire. She's a 7th grade school teacher and that right there would leave me exhausted. But not Paula, she's very active and enjoys keeping fit and sharing fitness tips and secrets with her readers. She's also a wonderful Crafter and believe it or not she can show you how to make a wreath out of a tennis racket. But my absolute favorite thing about her is when she shares here family heirlooms with her readers. She's a lot like me in that she is very sentimental about items from the past; things like vases and pots, old sewing patterns, cookbooks, jewelry, crystal...just tons of stuff. She posts much more regularly than I do and I guarantee if you check out her blog daily you will learn a lot plus be thoroughly entertained!

The second blog belongs to DUTA over at Places with Character. I have given DUTA an award before, and giving her another one is just further proof of how much I love her blog. DUTA lives in Israel and shares so much of her world with her readers. She posts amazing pictures and visiting her is like being given a tour by a professional tour guide. And she is so amazing because no matter how many comments she receives she personally responds to each and every one! She travels often and shares video about the places she has been.  Reading her blog helps me to realize that even though she's in a completely different country there are startling similarities in our life in spite of different cultures and beliefs. Did you know that there is a Global Seed Vault in Norway? I didn't know that either, but thanks to DUTA I now do. My dad has been a farmer all his life and when I told him about the seed vault that I read about on DUTA's blog I was amazed to find out that he knew all about it. And that is why I feel DUTA is deserving of a Sisterhood of the World Bloggers Award. I hope that you visit her because I'm sure you will love her blog as much as I do.

I couldn't give a Sisterhood of the World Bloggers award to another blog I really enjoy because that blog is written by a brother...not a sister. But I do want to mention him on my blog. He is Sextant of the blog Navigating the Finite. Sextant has the most interesting blog and he writes about so many different topics. I love that he does so much research when it comes to writing his posts. He writes about politics, electronics, retirement, the military and he does book reviews. One of his funniest posts recently was about a bird pooping on his head, it was hilarious. I wish I could make him an honorary sister and give him the award but I don't want the awards police to come after me. So Sextant know this...if I could give you the award I would but you have the Alicia of Titere con Bonete Award of being one of my favorite blogs!

The Worth of Souls 
is Great in the Sight of God...
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As I have mentioned on numerous occasions, I have loved serving in with the
young women so far. What examples. They are so full of light and desire to do good.
Truly inspirational. 

Last week, the Laurel class presidency planned an activity that turned out quite sweet. 
It was a spin off from our Sunday lesson, "A Righteous Example Influences Others".

At the beginning of the activity we briefly talked about the worth of their examples.
 We talked about how they each possessed unique talents
and strengths that are valuable to Heavenly Father and His plan. 
We concluded with the point that the each girl in the room was of worth
and had the potential to influence everyone around her. 

We started the activity by making some yummy banana splits then proceeded to sit in a circle. 
We gave each girl a piece of paper and an envelope that said, "You are of Worth". 
Each girl put their name and the top of the piece of paper and folded it up and put it in the envelope. 
We sat in a large circle and passed everyone's envelopes around--- writing a small note
 to each other about HOW and WHY that particular individual had influenced our lives.
 Everyone received an opportunity to write a small message to each other.
 It was a really great activity. 
The spirit was definitely strong as the girls faces lit up with joy as they would read 
the thoughtful notes and compliments each class member and leader had written. 

I think it is easy to sometimes be hard on ourselves because we tend to focus on our imperfections...
when in all reality,we are all so special, especially in the sight of our Heavenly Father. 
It was good to have the girls reminded of their strengths. 
To be reminded that they ARE special. 
And to be reminded of the fact that they DO make a 
difference in the lives of others around them on a daily basis.
Each girl was encouraged to take their envelopes and put it in a special place, 
as a reminder of their abilities to influence the lives of others around them. 
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Let your light so shine before men, 
that they may see your good works
 and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
Matthew 5:16

Sunday, June 17, 2012

It's Raining Men

What can I say? I am such a lucky girl. 
I have been overwhelmed with the great influence of righteous 
and worthy men in my life from the time I was young. 
I know I have talked about these individuals before,
 but I wanted to take just a second to write out my feelings
 and gratitude towards these exemplary men. 
Without them, I wouldn't be who I am today. 

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Craig W. Cosgrove
This man is everything to me. 
Ever since I was a little girl, I have looked up to him. 
Words can't express how grateful I am for him and his influence in my life.

Dad, you have always seen the best in me. You continually believe in me. 
You see things in me, that I might have never known I was capable of. 
You have never allowed me to cut myself short.
You have always offered constant support and unconditional love.  
I can't think of a dance recital or school event that I couldn't look 
out into the crowd and see you there...smiling at me... so proud of me. 
I have always known that you were my biggest fan. 
You have always seen the potential in me that I might not have always seen myself. 

 You have always been there to offer me the best advice. 
Even though I may not always act like it, I value your opinions more than anyone I know. 
And {although I hate to stroke your ego} you are one of the funniest people I know.

You have always been there to comfort me---
Whether it be if I had fallen down and hurt myself, 
or met me at 2 am at Denny's after I having my heart broken,
 or giving me  hug when I was in the MTC and needed it most... 
you have ALWAYS been there for me Dad. 

You have taught me to love.
 You have taught me to be an example to others around me.
 You have taught me that I am capable of great things.
You have taught me that I am of great worth.
Dad you will always be my greatest hero.
 I will always be your little princess. I love you. 

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Brett Gregory Aitken
Unfortunately Brett and I are on opposite sides of North America this week.
Oh how I am longing to be with him today.
As I have mentioned numerous times, Brett is my rock. He is my best friend. 
And one day, he is going to make one wonderful father.
How do I know?

I have always been a Daddy's girl through and through.
It was incredibly important for me to find a husband and father like him.
I'll never forget a particular Sunday when Brett took me to his ward 
for one of the first times since being engaged.
It may sound odd - but as he introduced me I could tell he saw me the way my Dad does.
He saw things in me that I didn't see in myself.
It was then that I knew that Brett was going to be an incredible Father.

Brett is a peacemaker, he is so sincere and thoughtful of others,
 he is my comforter, he is a hard worker, he is a spiritual giant 
But most importantly he always chooses to see the good in others.
Just like my Dad, he saw it in me.
And I know he will see it in our little ones.

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Gary Aitken
How blessed am I to have a second father that loves me so much. 
I am so grateful for this man. 
He has taught me so much about what it means to serve selflessly and willingly. 

As I was dating Brett, I loved when he would talk about his father. 
I could always tell how special his example was to Brett in his life...
 how he wanted to emulate his character...
how he desired to be just like him one day. 
I can see now how the decisions Brett makes in his daily life,
 the reason he does the things he does, 
is a direct correlation of his respect and admiration for his father. 
Brett could not have chosen a better example. 

As I have become closer to this man I have learned so much from his quiet example. 
He is so successful, but then again, one of the most humble men I have ever met. 
He has such a love for service and makes a constant effort to show love to others around him. 

His greatest happiness comes from 
seeing his loved ones happy. 
In my mind, there is no greater example of charity and love. 

Gary, thank you so much for your example. I feel overwhelmed by your love. 

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Ronald M. Cosgrove
I cannot talk about the influence of the men and fathers in my
 life without talking about my grandfather, my Pumpa. 

This man has always been one of the people I look up to the most. 
He has had an impact on SO many peoples lives, and I love him for it. 
He has left a legacy unlike any other.  
He has reached out to so many people and touched so many hearts.

This man is SO full of love. He embodies the idea of selfless service and true charity. 
He is a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. 
He stands as a witness of Christ at all times, in all things, and in all places. 

He has a warm sense of humor. Everyone who has associated with him knows it. 
He is full of energy and wit. His unique sense of humor is always apparent. 

His optimism and joy stems from his great faith
 in the gospel and Savior, Jesus Christ. 
He has spent years serving in bishoprics, temple presidencies, 
and as a sealer in the Cardston temple. 
His unfailing faith in Heavenly Father and his plan, 
has shaped him and his testimony. 

Pumpa you are such a giant--- a giant of knowledge, 
of faith, of love, of testimony, of compassion. 
I cannot adequately express how grateful I am for your example in my life. 
I love you so much and thank you for all the many
 things you have taught me throughout my life.

Let the Good Times roll
One of my favorite things about Sunday afternoon?
 Family time. 
Boy I love these kiddos. It seems like every time I am around them, I can't stop laughing.
They are both really growing up so fast. It is crazy to me. 
Caitlyn has enough spunk and sass to gag a horse.
Cade is crack up. So quick witted and full of sarcasm.
Together they are unreal.  
I feel so grateful for the time that I get to spend with them. They are such examples to me.
They know who they are, and could care less about what others think. 


One of the other greatest things about them is that they are the only 2 athletic members of our family. 
It is always such a fun time to be able to go and cheer these two on at their games.
They are both super competitive, especially against each other. 

At dinner tonight, Caitlyn asked everyone at the dinner table who we thought would 
win in a one on one basketball match between her and Cade. 
It turned into quite the competition (including everyone taking bets on who they thought would win
--- except for my Dad who remained a neutral coach taking the time to give advice to both parties). 
It was hilarious watching the little brother "stuff" the big sister, and the big sister outrun the little brother. 
We won't mention who won, but it was a definite close game :)

Boy I love these simple Sunday's being able to laugh and spend time with family---especially these two.
What a pair they are.